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I realized: Some of the my thoughts regarding life

I’m almost 23 years old and I’m not that old that to say much about life and teach you how to live, and maybe I’m wrong in many stuff, so here I write my thoughts and please correct me if you think I’m wrong, all your opinions, positive or negative is welcome:

Asking for help is not a good solution: Nobody care about more than yourself, nobody think same way as you, asking for help only will give some info to other people to be able bother you, The reason is that I’ve experienced that situation many many times.

Never relay on anyone in your life: No one, even closest friend or family or partner or parents, They will leave you alone at least once in the worst time you need them, so build your life based on the thinking that “I’m all alone, now how I should deal with this?”, in that situation if someone help you, life will be beautiful, if not, you would not get in trouble because you have been expecting this.

The thing majority do, is not always right: Even if 99% of people do something, its not mean that is a good thing or its correct, use your brain before doing anything.

Never expect anything from anyone: Yes, never!, no matter what, either emotional or financial, it will ruin your friendships and also cause many problem for you, so love your family and friends for who they are and not for what they do for you, This way even if they never help you and never do anything for you, you can still remain friend and don’t feel alone, yes maybe this would look like a Fake friendship, but it works sometimes and you would not feel alone often or get mad at your friends.

Don’t allow your friends promise you anything: People forget their promise sometimes, some people do it easily and often, so don’t let them promise you, its better.

Never trust your friends 100%, They can be 2 faced: No matter how beautiful they speak, no matter what they promise you and no matter how long you know them, Don’t believe them easily, to avoid get a hard time when you see their other face, don’t get too close to them and don’t think of them as best friends.

Help people understand you, they may don’t be smart enough: Do NOT be selfish, Do NOT be silly, Do NOT be perky, but sometimes remind people good things about yourself!

Help people when you can, but not in a way they think its your job to do: Yeah, be kind to people, always, but avoid to look humble or make people think if you are helping them its your job, Its NOT your job, Its you being kind!!!

Don’t waste your time, Some people will never understand: You cannot change some people, so don’t get mad at them if they don’t understand, It can be even a physical problem or…

Religion, politic, waste of time: Yeah, both of them are waste of time, so let me make it easy for you, religion is “Don’t Lie, Don’t Steal, Be Kind, Respect Humanity, Don’t be Lazy in your Life” and Politic is something you never can change and inspecting that until will give you reason to become sad, so if you dislike politic of where you live, move!.

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There is much more to say, but I think its enough for now.
What Do you think? share it in the comments.

Regards!
-Omid

4 thoughts on “I realized: Some of the my thoughts regarding life

  1. desiderata – by max ehrmann
    Go placidly amid the noise and haste, and remember what peace there may be in silence.

    As far as possible, without surrender, be on good terms with all persons. Speak your truth quietly and clearly; and listen to others, even to the dull and the ignorant, they too have their story. Avoid loud and aggressive persons, they are vexations to the spirit.

    If you compare yourself with others, you may become vain and bitter; for always there will be greater and lesser persons than yourself. Enjoy your achievements as well as your plans. Keep interested in your own career, however humble; it is a real possession in the changing fortunes of time.

    Exercise caution in your business affairs, for the world is full of trickery. But let this not blind you to what virtue there is; many persons strive for high ideals, and everywhere life is full of heroism. Be yourself. Especially, do not feign affection. Neither be cynical about love, for in the face of all aridity and disenchantment it is perennial as the grass.

    Take kindly to the counsel of the years, gracefully surrendering the things of youth. Nurture strength of spirit to shield you in sudden misfortune. But do not distress yourself with imaginings. Many fears are born of fatigue and loneliness.

    Beyond a wholesome discipline, be gentle with yourself. You are a child of the universe, no less than the trees and the stars; you have a right to be here. And whether or not it is clear to you, no doubt the universe is unfolding as it should.

    Therefore be at peace with God, whatever you conceive Him to be, and whatever your labors and aspirations, in the noisy confusion of life, keep peace in your soul.

    With all its sham, drudgery and broken dreams, it is still a beautiful world.

    Be cheerful. Strive to be happy.

    Max Ehrmann c.1920

    desiderata – by max ehrmann
    Go placidly amid the noise and haste, and remember what peace there may be in silence.

    As far as possible, without surrender, be on good terms with all persons. Speak your truth quietly and clearly; and listen to others, even to the dull and the ignorant, they too have their story. Avoid loud and aggressive persons, they are vexations to the spirit.

    If you compare yourself with others, you may become vain and bitter; for always there will be greater and lesser persons than yourself. Enjoy your achievements as well as your plans. Keep interested in your own career, however humble; it is a real possession in the changing fortunes of time.

    Exercise caution in your business affairs, for the world is full of trickery. But let this not blind you to what virtue there is; many persons strive for high ideals, and everywhere life is full of heroism. Be yourself. Especially, do not feign affection. Neither be cynical about love, for in the face of all aridity and disenchantment it is perennial as the grass.

    Take kindly to the counsel of the years, gracefully surrendering the things of youth. Nurture strength of spirit to shield you in sudden misfortune. But do not distress yourself with imaginings. Many fears are born of fatigue and loneliness.

    Beyond a wholesome discipline, be gentle with yourself. You are a child of the universe, no less than the trees and the stars; you have a right to be here. And whether or not it is clear to you, no doubt the universe is unfolding as it should.

    Therefore be at peace with God, whatever you conceive Him to be, and whatever your labors and aspirations, in the noisy confusion of life, keep peace in your soul.

    With all its sham, drudgery and broken dreams, it is still a beautiful world.

    Be cheerful. Strive to be happy.

    Max Ehrmann c.1920

  2. I think you have some very good wisdom in your words but I also see a lot of sadness and hurt in them. It does pay to be cautious but in doing so you can miss out on a lot in your life. People can be trusted, people do help others, people can be relied on but people do make mistakes and in the process others will get hurt.

    Some might even appear cold and uncaring, which may not be true at all, you have to get to know a person, see all around them, what makes them smile, laugh, cry, or get angry.

    I try to live by the Golden Rule, which is to do unto others as you would have others do unto you. I may fail now and then and I have to live with that, but I try which is really all we can ask of someone.

    I expect things from others, I think we should, things like respect for example. I don’t expect someone to be able to read my mind though. It doesn’t have to be material things, sometimes just a shoulder to cry on, or someone to share a cup of coffee with is enough, but I do expect “friends” to at least give as good as they get, otherwise are they really your friend?

    I sort of disagree about religion though, organized religion is one thing and belief in a “higher power” is another. I know I would of been so very lost when my parents passed away if I didn’t know a “higher power”.

    You are one of the most amazing people I have ever “met” Omid, my life will forever be touched by you. May God bless you immensely.

  3. Dear Omid;
    I get the impression that you have been taken advantage of and let down by many people in your young life. Let me begin by saying this was also MY experience as a teenager and young adult. I agree, it’s not good to expect too much from others because this will invariably lead to disappointment. HOWEVER, there are still plenty of caring, honest people in the world and if you give them a chance, you may even be pleasantly surprised. To isolate yourself within a protective shell results in loneliness and depression.
    Yes, never be afraid to “toot your own horn”. Be bold, in fact! Acknowledge your accomplishments with pride and others will do so as well.
    Absolutely, don’t let others take advantage of your good nature. REMIND them you are doing them a favour and it’s NOT your job! Right on!
    Definitely true that some people will never understand and don’t change. Hopefully, you can realize who they are before too much time has been wasted.
    Have never had any use for religion myself and we can still be good people without it. You are a shining example of that, Omid. I disagree with you about the politics however. I know things are much worse in Iran, so I do understand what you said, but, here, people CAN make a difference. They have to inform themselves about the issues and get out and vote! Sadly, many are too complacent and don’t bother, then sit around and complain, LOL
    My wish for you is that you can find your way to the West and have a better life. Please know that you DO have friends out here in cyberspace.
    ((HUGS))

  4. Omid,
    I wish you the very best my friend.
    I’ll tell you what I tell my own kids………..Go into this world with a good heart but beware that not all you come in contact with are as heartfelt as yourself and do your best to keep those with ulterior motives/false friendship from getting to you in any way.  Impulse will usually backfire…..avoid it as mush as possible (keep it in check) and if need to save that energy for a worthier cause, time and place that will be more useful to you in and other like people in life. Trust nobody but yourself and accept that most people are greedy and only out for themselves but that not all are that way.  Take people at face value knowing going in that not all, especially those that seem better than thou, may be too good to be true and do not have your best intentions at heart. That said…..Don’t let those types keep you from shining or make you sour.  That energy can be wasteful and much more effective used in a constructive way, if you will/can harness it and use it as such for yourself as well as others you will be a happier person for it  Don’t let others get you down.  They aren’t worth it.  Have a great life!  Don’t let others sopil that for you. They aren’t worth your time and energy.
    Go into this worls with…………heart of gold, mind of steel and soul in tact. I do believe you will be find and accomplish great things no matter how small or large. You only get one chance at this life……….make it good for yourself and future generations as this is also the only world we have and should cherish it as so or one day it may become so poluted it will become lost to us all.
    God Speed.
    Take care,
    L

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