5 Comments to Sometimes hate is not enough

  1.   My son complained one day, that he felt sad and depressed also, because he hadn’t done anything BIG with his life, or really gotten anywhere in the 26 years he’d been alive. I asked him how long he had been on his own, and he said “8 years”. I asked him if he had ANY control over his life for the first 18 years, and he said no, he didn’t. I explained to him, that his mother and I had control until he was 18, so he’s only been in control for the last 8 years. I told him he couldn’t blame himself for the whole 26 years, just the last 8. How much blame do you REALLY need to take on yourself? He saw that he was only responsible for those few years, and that NOW he had FULL say so, as to where his life went, and what he did with it. 
      What would your friends do, if you weren’t there for them? You may not be something to everybody, but you may be everything to somebody. Always keep in mind, those who love you, like you, call you friend, and like being around you. PEACE, my friend Omid.

  2. Dear Omid;  It appears that you are suffering from low self-esteem and depression.  Have ever discussed taking anti-depressant medication with your doctor?  It might help you feel better about yourself and your life.  Please remember that you are still so young; only 23!  Very few people have accomplished much, if anything, by that age.  Do you know the movie, “It’s a Wonderful Life”?  It’s about a man who felt just like you did and he wished that he’s never been born.  An angel came along and granted his wish and guess what?  He finally saw that he made a difference in other people’s lives and was a worthwhile human being.  I wish the same for you, my friend. ((HUGS))

  3. People try to help me, but it hurts me when I see how they show love and I disappoint them, I see my friend’s wife tell me that I’m their only friend and when I look at myself I see what a boring and useless friend they have, sad for those who I’m their only friend.

    I find it sad that the friends you refer to trust you as a friend & only have disdain for their friend-
    in your opinion_ have they voiced this to you? What do they contribute to your life, & what do you contribute to theirs? My very Best friend  for the last 25 yrs. does not tell me what she thinks I want to hear_ she tells me how it is in her opinions- just curious about this. for your health _ gout & BP are reversible in a good nutritious diet- do u want me to send you some links on that or do y want to just google- gout is Uric acid caused by too much red meat- etc- in your diet;
     BP unless genetic at your age is also usually able to be controlled by diet and exercise- how do you get around- car- or walking?  has your Dr. suggested this?
    to me a friend is someone that tells you their opinion_ not what you want to hear”
    It may not be what you want to hear- as my friend has done with me_ but its usually true-
    Wishing you a good weekend_ hey_ get out & do Something_ alot of things are free and good for you too’  Hugs 🙂
    I think you need more exercise-

  4. Hi Glenda
    Thanks for your comment, no yet I did not buy that one.
    And for Norton, I think that’s a good idea, just check what version your license support and install it, I’m using Norton with no problem.

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